Coaching enables you to create dedicated, private time to share your loss. You will be able to open up as much as you are comfortable. You can expect to do most of the talking. I will do most of the listening. You are offered a private time to share, reflect, recognise who and what has been lost, validate your feelings and move forward in the best way for you.

My own very difficult journey into parenthood has become my vocation. Severe hyperemesis made my first pregnancy almost unbearable. Post natal depression, once my first child was born, was a dark valley. Subsequent miscarriage and unexplained secondary infertility threatened to steal my dream of having a second child. I experienced all these whilst working in a senior role within a corporate environment. These experiences enable me to walk alongside others, to understand the work landscape within which they are trying to become a parent, to listen sincerely and understand the value of validating another’s loss.

Emotions and thoughts that have been kept inside might well come out as you talk.

This is normal. This is ok.

I didn’t start to grieve my baby loss until 5 years after it happened. I thought “I had gotten over it” - I hadn’t. Often baby loss is a hidden hurt, pushed deep down and covered over.

Tissues might well be needed but bring yourself just as you are.

We will start with a free 20 minute initial chat that allows you to decide if you feel comfortable talking with me. If you wish to proceed I will email to you a Word document explaining session duration, format, likely progress, coaching limitations and wind down process. There is no pressure at any stage to continue.

Click on the Go To Contact Form below and I will get back to you via email to arrange your free 20 minute conversation.